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ABOUT SAVANNAH’S UNDERGROUND

What Happens at a Savannah’s Underground Event?

Welcome to the Dark Side, my friends. We do have cookies. Make yourself comfy.

So, you’ve done it. By golly, you’ve found us here at Savannah Underground. You’ve read our rules, added our profile on Fetlife, and decided to come to a party! Let’s take a moment to go over what to expect at your first party – keep in mind – that there are a few steps that you have complete first.

COME TO A MUNCH OR SOCIAL!

A munch or social is a gathering at a local establishment where we will often come together for socialization. During this time, new members will be provided orientation which covers our rules and etiquette, and then they can complete their RSO and waiver. We also collect money from people who are planning to attend a party. Typically we hold munches on a monthly cadience. We do allow kinksters under 21 at the social but at play parties we require everyone who attends to be 21 years or older.

Note: If you are nervous about attending a munch or social or it is your first time at an event like this, please contact us and we will assign you a munch buddy.

What’s an RSO and why do we run one?
So glad you asked! An RSO is a Registered Sex Offender background check. We do this to ensure that no one who is an RSO or has a past of violent crime can attend the party. It ensures the safety (which is our number one concern) of everyone attending INCLUDING you! We ask that you bring your legal ID so that we are able to run one and verify this. This is free of charge to you.

The digital form you fill out at the munch is a one-time thing, and is sent to a secured server only one person has access to. (Discretion and privacy is an utmost concern.)

Why do I have to attend an orientation?
We have rules for general rules that help us run our group. If you are aware of those rules, then you will be an informed person. If you break those rules, you get banned and aren’t allowed to attend our events. Plus – it makes for a safe environment for everyone involved.

Do you take cash, card, or check?
We take cash at the socials or PayPay, Zelle, and Venmo for members who have completed the background check and orientation requirements. Any money received by Savannah Underground goes right back into the group. This allows for us to reserve venues, buy new toys, and build new furniture. Any money raised benefits you. Tell us what you want more of as we try to cater to your wants and needs from this group!

Keep your receipt. This is your golden ticket into Willy Wonka’s Chocolate factory. You will need the ticket to get into the event. ( We suggest taking a picture of it in case you lose the paper copy.)

AFTER THE MUNCH!

Munches are typically held monthly. You’re more than welcome to come to each social or munch to get to know other members in the group better. If you have any questions during this time, you can drop us a message and we are more than happy to help get you the information that you need.

PARTY TIME!

Where is the party?
We do not disclose the location of the party until the day before or the day of. You will receive directions and any other vital information for the location of the party including how to arrive to the door and where nudity is allowed via a private message from the Sav_Underground profile so please make sure you are friends on Fetlife.com with the group profile.

What do I need to bring?

  • Your receipt! This is your ticket into the door. ( Ready to see Willy or take a trip to Wonderland with Alice down the Rabbit hole??)
  • Drinks and snacks. We provide water. Everything else is up to you. Any toys you want to play with or prep tools for your scene or type of play.
  • Clothing (if you want to change)
  • YOURSELF! Note: You cannot bring another person if they have not attended an orientation, completed an RSO check, and paid for the event. No exceptions will be made.

What should I expect to happen?

An Educational Demo – We like to provide the group with a demonstration at each party. This allows for new things to be presented and learned in the best safest manner!

Play Time – There will be furniture set up throughout the venue. You will see various people in states of dress and undress participating in scenes. If you have any questions about a scene, ask a Dungeon Monitor.

Experiences – We normally have a couple stations set up that people can participate in without having to bring their own toys – such as fire cupping, electricity, and wax play.

Scenes – So we talk about scenes. Before you ever engage in any scene with anyone, please please negotiate! Negotiate! Negotiate! This way everyone in the scene or your play partner will know all the do’s dont’s and hard limits so no one in the scene, usually the bottom, will have to yell RED! (Scene Stops as directed by the Dungeon Monitor) There will be many people engaged in scenes. Most of the time it will be two people but occasionally involves more than two but never never engage yourself in someone else’s scene unless you have negotiated that prior to the scene starting. People enjoy the power exchange between the Top in the scene and the Bottom in the Scene. People get into a space in their minds where they are free and disconnect from the rest of the world even from the people around them. Please allow the people ample time to perform “Aftercare” after the scene is over before rushing in and ruining their head space or causing them trauma or a drop from a really good place in their mind.

Will there be sexual intercourse?? You may possibly see that too but that’s not what BDSM is all about although sometimes it does lead to that but we encourage safe sex and condoms are a must. We provide those too.

Socialization – This is a time to talk to people. Meet new ones. Ask questions, but do not touch any person, or personal property without permission.

First Aid – We always have a first aid kit on site in case injury happens. We also have multiple ways of sanitizing equipment available and also provide condoms for safe sex practices if you choose to participate in that type of play. We strive as a group to host play parties in order to provide a safe and comfortable atmosphere for people to play and explore their kinks.

Questions?

If you have any questions, please let us know!